ADHD Mums Guide to Boundaries & Breaking Free from People-Pleasing – S2 Ep 50

$10.00

If you’re the one who keeps saying yes, this kit helps you say no — without losing your nerve (or your mind).

If you say yes when you mean no, take on too much to keep the peace, or feel sick in your stomach before sending a boundary-setting text — this kit is for you.

People-pleasing isn’t a personality quirk. For many ADHD mums, it’s a survival strategy. But constantly putting everyone else first will burn you out. This guide helps you understand why it’s so hard to stop — and gives you the exact words, scripts, and mindset tools to finally set boundaries that stick.

It’s not about becoming confrontational. It’s about finally putting yourself on your own list.

This kit was made for:

  • You say yes when you’re already overloaded (and regret it instantly)

  • You panic at the thought of disappointing someone

  • You’ve never had a boundary that didn’t come with guilt or a side of overexplaining

  • You’ve been the “easy one” or the default peacekeeper your whole life

  • You want your kids to learn how to say no — but you struggle to model it

  • You’re exhausted from doing everything for everyone, and something’s got to give

BTW: Purchasing this kit helps support the ADHD Mums Podcast! Every episode takes time, energy, and behind-the-scenes work. This kit helps cover those costs.’

Description

️ADHD Mums Kit S2 Ep 50: ADHD Mums Guide to Boundaries & Breaking Free from People-Pleasing

How to Stop People-Pleasing Without the Guilt Spiral

Inside, you’ll get:

  • A breakdown of the ADHD-people-pleasing connection (you’re not weak — you’re wired for harmony)

  • Reflection prompts to identify your triggers and patterns

  • Real-life boundary scripts for family events, overstimulation, and saying no with clarity

  • A printable boundary plan worksheet — complete with self-checks and exit strategies

  • Support for pushback, guilt, and awkward conversations

  • Grounding tools for emotional regulation when holding boundaries feels too intense

  • Guidance on teaching your kids how to set their own boundaries — by watching you do it

If you are self-managing your NDIS funds, these guides should be reimbursable via the portal. If you are plan-managing your NDIS funds, these guides should be reimbursed via your plan manager. The invoicing has the eguide names on the invoices automatically but this can be changed to general capacity building codes if requested.

If you have any questions about this, please email assistant@adhdmums.com.au

The NDIS funds a range of supports and services which may include education, employment, social participation, independence, living arrangements and health and wellbeing. In order to be considered reasonable and necessary, a support or service: must be related to a participant’s disability. These guides and books can relate to your child’s diagnosis or your own and either plan can be used for funding.