How to Validate Your Partner: A Guide for ADHD Mums & Their Partners – S2 Ep 75

$10.00

If talking about the mental load always ends in frustration, this kit helps you get through without an argument, guilt, or feeling like you have to justify why you’re exhausted.

✔ Clear scripts to explain what you’re carrying – without feeling like you’re nagging
✔ How to respond when your partner gets defensive (so the conversation actually moves forward)
✔ The shift from “helping” to actually sharing the load – so you’re not managing everything alone
✔ Full S2 Ep 75 episode transcript – so you can highlight key parts or share it with your partner

This isn’t about keeping score. It’s about being seen, feeling supported, and making the mental load something you don’t have to fight over anymore.

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Which Mental Load Kit Do You Need?

Ep 69 Kit – Recognising & Shifting the Mental Load

Start here if you need to map out what you’re carrying and identify the imbalance – because if no one sees it, nothing changes. This kit helps you name what’s happening, spot where the load is falling on you, and make small shifts toward sharing it.

Ep 71 Kit – Navigating Pushback & Making It Stick

If you’ve tried to shift the load before but ended up managing it all anyway, this kit is for you. It helps you have the conversations that actually change things – without burnout, micromanaging, or getting stuck chasing tasks that should’ve been done.

Ep 73 Kit – Making the Mental Load Visible

For when you need a clear system to get it out of your head and onto something practical. This kit helps you make the mental load visible, delegate without micromanaging, and create a balance that lasts – so you’re not constantly reminding, checking, or redoing everything yourself.

Ep 75 Kit – How to Validate Your Partner & Shift the Load Together [This One]

If your partner doesn’t see what you’re carrying or gets defensive when you bring it up, this guide helps you break through. Learn how to get validation instead of pushback and finally share the load without micromanaging.

If you are self-managing your NDIS funds, these guides should be reimbursable via the portal. If you are plan-managing your NDIS funds, these guides should be reimbursed via your plan manager. The invoicing has the eguide names on the invoices automatically but this can be changed to general capacity building codes if requested.

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The NDIS funds a range of supports and services which may include education, employment, social participation, independence, living arrangements and health and wellbeing. In order to be considered reasonable and necessary, a support or service: must be related to a participant’s disability. These guides and books can relate to your child’s diagnosis or your own and either plan can be used for funding.